Your ex boyfriend is refusing to communicate with you in any way and it is breaking your heart. Everything seemed to be going along just fine and then he walked in and said he needed space. Since then, he has been stubborn as a mule. You feel that if he would just talk to you, things could be worked out. That is where you are wrong. He does not want to talk things out, he just wants to be left alone. If you have been calling him constantly, you are using the wrong tactic, to get your ex back. You need to stop harassing him and learn what will really pull him back and make him love you like crazy.

When a man refuses to communicate with you, the best thing you can do is respect his wishes. As hard as it may be, you will have to stop trying to get him back. This might seem strange, but the less you try to make him talk to you, the sooner he will talk to you. Something made him unhappy with the relationship and he will need time to get over it. Every time you pressure him, reminds him of the problem and makes it harder for him to get over it.

By chasing him and staying constantly in his face, you are telling him that you need him and you are his forever. You are saying that no matter how long it takes you will be waiting. You should be doin g just the opposite. Take yourself completely out of his life and see how fast he changes. Men never appreciate women that are too easy. They like a challenge and if you want him back, that is what you need to give him.

Look at when you first met him, you did not throw yourself at him, you played hard to get. But, since he was the one to do the breaking up, you feel that will not work. You think you need to beg and lose your pride to make him see how much you love and need him. What will really pull him back, is to male him see how much he loves and needs you.

Since men want what the cannot have and want a challenge, do what you did to get him in the first place. Act as if you had never met him and start living your life as you did back before you ever knew him. Spend more time with your family and do the things that interest you. Stop thinking of him so much and think of yourself. Go out with you friends and have fun the way you used to. Do not date, but flirt with other guys when you are out for a good time.

Your ex boyfriend will hear of your activities and realize that you are not going to chase him. He still loves you and does not want to lose you and realizes that if he wants you back he will have to win you back. That will pose the challenge he needs to make the old hunter gene kick in and he will be chasing you again.