Nearly everyone will experience a relationship breakup at some time in their life. So it is better to be prepared than sorry. Would you know what to do when the love of your life says he needs space? Maybe it has already happened to you and you are seeking advice. In that case, you have come to the right place because these tips will change his mind fast.

What you say and do at the time of a breakup will greatly effect your chance of getting your ex back. If you cry, beg and tell him you cannot live without him, you are telling him he can have you any time it pleases him. He will be able to play you like a puppet and you will be at his mercy. The problem is, most breakups come without warning and you react without thinking. But, if you can manage it, there is something you can do to turn things around.

When your boyfriend says he needs space put a big smile on your face and tell him you agree. If you can hold back the tears long enough, tell him you have been thinking of telling him the same thing. Then wish him well and get him out the door. After he is gone you can throw yourself on the bed and cry, kick and scream until you get it all out.

But what if you are so stunned by his announcement that you cry and beg for him to change his mind? Don't worry because this is what you are most likely to do. But all is not lost, you can still use this same tactic, but you will have to set him up for the bomb before you drop it on him. It will require a few more steps, but it will get the same results.

To get things started, cut off all contact with him. That means no phone calls, emails or text messages. Do not stalk him or drive by his place late at night to see if he is home. You must drop off his radar completely for a few weeks. During this time it is crucial that you stay busy and keep your mind off him as much as possible. Reconnect with your family and friends that you might have neglected during the relationship. They will welcome you and provide the love and support you need to regain your self confidence.

After a few weeks of having no contact with the love of your life, it will be time to drop the bomb. Call him and tell him that you have been doing a lot of thinking and you can see he is right. The two of you are not right for each other and you are better off being apart. Wish him well and end the conversation. The reason this will work to get your ex back, is the rejection he will feel. Men do not handle rejection well and he will feel challenged. This challenge will force him to try everything he can to get you back.