When you first met him, he was the man of your dreams and you was his princess. You could not see enough of each other and talked for hours on the phone when you were apart. Then some of the things he did, that you thought were cute in the beginning, became annoying. He must have started to see flaws in you too. That is when the bickering and fault finding started and now you are wondering how to make the boyfriend that broke up with you, your man again. If this is happening to you, use this expert advice to win back his heart.

Love never runs smooth and it is easy to start taking things for granted. When you first meet someone and fall in love, there is a beautiful haze that hides the other person's flaws. That is why, we say love is blind. If that haze would only hang around forever, you would never notice each others faults. But, unfortunately the haze goes away and you begin to see each other as you really are.

It does not hit you all at once, it come to you gradually. What really causes the bickering and finding of fault is the shock of learning your partner is not perfect. But, once he is gone, he becomes perfect again and you want to make him your man again. That is the way we are. We always want something we cannot have. You feel you can no longer have your man, so you want him again.

If you panic and start calling him, telling him you love him and cannot live without him, you will remain flawed to him. You will be confirming his reason for breaking up with you and that he made a mistake by ever loving you. Remember, he only became perfect to you again, after he was gone. So you need to give him the impression that you are gone.

Your ex boyfriend is human too, and he also will want what he cannot have. To win back his heart, you need to make him think he can no longer have you. That means, you have to accept the breakup and move on with your life. Do not give your ex any clue that you want him back. Give him space and time to experience his life without you and you will become perfect to him again.

Although, you both want to be back together and this time you vow to accept each others faults, pride may keep you apart. Someone will have to make the first move. Men are too macho and their ego is to big to allow them to admit they are wrong, so it will be up to you. Calling him might not be a good idea because you might start crying at the sound of his voice. So, send an email.

Make it a short email and say you are sorry for any pain you have caused him. Then add that if he ever feels the need to chat, he has your phone number. This shows your strength and compassion as well. You ex cannot keep from being impressed and he will want to be your man again.