How to Be a Chic Magnet
- By Bill Preston
- Published 12/25/2011
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Do you want to be a chic magnet? It is not some secret mystery locked up in the Pandora’s Box. Learning how to be a chic magnet really boils down to a few tips. I have listed five here, but any of them could be interchangeable with other ideas. These are just a few ways I have seen it work for me and my friends.
1. Buy a cute puppy and walk it everywhere. I’ve seen it a million times. The most reserved or shy woman in the world will open up when there is a wiggling bundle of fur at her feet. If the big brawny Harley guy gets down on his knees to pet the dog and talk baby talk to it, you just know it will make women melt. I also think that when you have a cute dog, it really shows women a side of your personality, that you are nurturing, loving and affectionate. The combination is a sure winner.
2. Fake it until you make it. Practice exuding self confidence until it becomes natural. There is nothing sexier than a man who knows he is worth it. Sometimes the least attractive guy in the world will walk out the door with the most stunning woman. Why? Because he believed he was just as good as her. And you know what, she believed it, too. It is amazing how what you think of yourself influences what others think about you. Don’t ever underestimate the power of positive thinking. If you don’t have self esteem, make
it your no. 1 goal right now to work on that.
3. Have so much fun with your friends when you are out, that you barely notice the women around you. Trust me, this one makes you irresistible. Plan a night out with the sole intention of having a good time. Truly, in your heart of hearts, be after one thing and one thing only when you go out: having fun with your friends. If you really are sincere in this goal, it will shine through and women will be captivated by your joie de vivre and ability to have fun without being dependent on a woman.
4. Flirt in a harmless, nonthreatening way with every female you meet. I’m talking the little old lady you open the door for at church and the cute redhead who works behind the desk at the bookstore. It doesn’t matter if it is a woman you want to date or your mother’s neighbor, flirt and appreciate things about them. When you do this all the time, you learn to truly appreciate women and all they have to offer outside of just a dating environment. It also becomes second nature to treat women this way and will be completely natural for you when you do come across a woman you want to date.
5. Be impeccably dressed and well groomed at all times. In college, women used to be absolutely intrigued by my friend Jack who wore a black tie nearly 24/7. I even saw once he had silk pajamas with a matching silk tie. Women loved it. He had such style and was always dressed to the nines.
1. Buy a cute puppy and walk it everywhere. I’ve seen it a million times. The most reserved or shy woman in the world will open up when there is a wiggling bundle of fur at her feet. If the big brawny Harley guy gets down on his knees to pet the dog and talk baby talk to it, you just know it will make women melt. I also think that when you have a cute dog, it really shows women a side of your personality, that you are nurturing, loving and affectionate. The combination is a sure winner.
2. Fake it until you make it. Practice exuding self confidence until it becomes natural. There is nothing sexier than a man who knows he is worth it. Sometimes the least attractive guy in the world will walk out the door with the most stunning woman. Why? Because he believed he was just as good as her. And you know what, she believed it, too. It is amazing how what you think of yourself influences what others think about you. Don’t ever underestimate the power of positive thinking. If you don’t have self esteem, make
3. Have so much fun with your friends when you are out, that you barely notice the women around you. Trust me, this one makes you irresistible. Plan a night out with the sole intention of having a good time. Truly, in your heart of hearts, be after one thing and one thing only when you go out: having fun with your friends. If you really are sincere in this goal, it will shine through and women will be captivated by your joie de vivre and ability to have fun without being dependent on a woman.
4. Flirt in a harmless, nonthreatening way with every female you meet. I’m talking the little old lady you open the door for at church and the cute redhead who works behind the desk at the bookstore. It doesn’t matter if it is a woman you want to date or your mother’s neighbor, flirt and appreciate things about them. When you do this all the time, you learn to truly appreciate women and all they have to offer outside of just a dating environment. It also becomes second nature to treat women this way and will be completely natural for you when you do come across a woman you want to date.
5. Be impeccably dressed and well groomed at all times. In college, women used to be absolutely intrigued by my friend Jack who wore a black tie nearly 24/7. I even saw once he had silk pajamas with a matching silk tie. Women loved it. He had such style and was always dressed to the nines.
Bill Preston
Bill has been studying how to be a pick up artist for the last 5 years in NYC and can help you learn how to pick up women and how to get a girlfriend . The original article can be found here: How to Be a Chic Magnet.
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