If you catch your partner looking at pornography on the Internet or on her mobile phone, you may have a range of emotions that can range from indifference, to curiosity, to rage.

Since pornography is viewed differently by males and females, there is a debate as to whether or not pornography can hurt a marriage.

For some couples, discussing pornography maybe normal, others simply view pornography as insulting, degrading, repulsive, and as a form of virtual unfaithfulness.

Here are some negative effects of pornography on your marriage:

Anger and mistrust due to pornography can cause your marriage to break up.

Pornography can cause your partner to withdraw from your relationship due to the gratification that comes with pornography.

When your partner views porn you may feel disrespected, take it personally, and believe that you are not good enough for him.

Pornography can decrease sexual satisfaction within your marriage, because it may be difficult for your partner to see sex as a form of communication.

Some positive effects of pornography on your marriage:

Some experts believe a sexual relationship can be enhanced when imagination is allowed to run free.

If your sexual intimacy with one another is not being replaced by your partner’s porn viewing, then it should not be an issue in your marriage.

If your partner is viewing porn, it can only hurt you if you allow it to. If you aren't insecure and have a good self-image, your husband's porn use won't hurt you.

Talk With One Another About Pornography

The best thing to do here is that couples should talk about pornography.  Like any other tool or situation, pornography may enhance your marriage if it is viewed in a positive way.  Be open and avoid prohibiting your partner on doing what he wants, but compromise instead.