How to Get a Boyfriend in 7 Days – Guaranteed!
- By Tanya Haden Tebb
- Published 12/17/2008
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Sometimes when women have not had a male friend for a while, they begin to wonder what is wrong with them, why they can’t seem to meet that special guy. Well, here is a fool-proof strategy to get you a boyfriend within 7 days! You can relax in the knowledge that simply by following steps 1, 2 & 3 you will have your boyfriend before the week is through.
Please do take into consideration that some of these suggestions may require you to step out of your comfort zone just a little, but if you are serious about acquiring a boyfriend and follow these steps for just 7 days you will find a boyfriend. Stepping out of character can often be the catalyst that breaks the old mold and makes way for a new beginning.
1. Be Seen in the Right Places
For the next 7 days you must get out there and be seen. Not with a whole bunch of friends, but on your own. Take something interesting to read with you if you find the prospect of sitting alone daunting, but don’t sit engrossed in what you are reading, you must appear open and approachable. Look around and smile at anyone who catches your eye. Places full of people (men) are best, try bars, restaurants, cafes, sports games, the theatre or any you think of. To obtain the best results think about where the type of man you want to meet might frequent? Do you like guys who hang out at cafes, surfer dudes who hang out at the beach, tough guys who hang out at the gym, gentlemen who can be found at certain clubs, or guys who like to party you might find at bars. These are the places you want to be seen and you want to be sure to look your best. Dress attractively and go alone. Do this for at least 1 hour every day for the seven days.
2. Internet Dating
Sign up for a week’s trial at 3 different online dating agencies. Many give a 7 day free trial so this may not even cost you a penny. My recommendations to try
are; Match.com, YahooPersonals.com and eHarmony.com. The reason for signing up at 3 is that you will have the widest selection of men to choose from. After registering, do a search for men you might be interested in, select 5 of them and send them an email. Every day for the next 7 days you must send at least 5 emails to 5 different men. I suggest widening your search options for the best results. You can even try extending your search to include ‘all countries’ you might find that you strike up a romance from across the sea.
Don’t sit back and wait for these guys to reply as some never will. By writing to 5 guys every day for the 7 days, that will be 35 guys in total, you will be guaranteed to find a boyfriend you like even with this strategy alone, but why stop there when you will find strategy 3 so enjoyable?
3. Activity Weekend
Having spent the week following Steps 1 & 2, you will already have plenty of guys to choose from, so this will be the cherry on the cake! Think about something you have always wanted to do, but have been too afraid to try like rock-climbing, skydiving, canoeing, abseiling, white-water rafting, go-kart racing, something adventurous and search out where you can take part in such activities. Do a search on the internet for ‘singles weekends’ and see what comes up. Get a hold of some brochures and find something that inspires you.
Adventure sports are a great way to expand your horizons, but if the outdoors is definitely not for you, there are other options like yoga weekends, health spas, walking or painting weekends. You find something that is of interest to you that you wouldn’t normally do, it must include at least 1 night away with a group, preferably 2 nights. Pack clothes that are comfortable, but that compliment your figure what ever size you might be. Clothes that make you feel sexy and attractive.
Just like that, you can be dating again, with plenty of men to choose from and on your way to discovering your very own Mr. Right. Good luck and have fun!
Please do take into consideration that some of these suggestions may require you to step out of your comfort zone just a little, but if you are serious about acquiring a boyfriend and follow these steps for just 7 days you will find a boyfriend. Stepping out of character can often be the catalyst that breaks the old mold and makes way for a new beginning.
1. Be Seen in the Right Places
For the next 7 days you must get out there and be seen. Not with a whole bunch of friends, but on your own. Take something interesting to read with you if you find the prospect of sitting alone daunting, but don’t sit engrossed in what you are reading, you must appear open and approachable. Look around and smile at anyone who catches your eye. Places full of people (men) are best, try bars, restaurants, cafes, sports games, the theatre or any you think of. To obtain the best results think about where the type of man you want to meet might frequent? Do you like guys who hang out at cafes, surfer dudes who hang out at the beach, tough guys who hang out at the gym, gentlemen who can be found at certain clubs, or guys who like to party you might find at bars. These are the places you want to be seen and you want to be sure to look your best. Dress attractively and go alone. Do this for at least 1 hour every day for the seven days.
2. Internet Dating
Sign up for a week’s trial at 3 different online dating agencies. Many give a 7 day free trial so this may not even cost you a penny. My recommendations to try
Don’t sit back and wait for these guys to reply as some never will. By writing to 5 guys every day for the 7 days, that will be 35 guys in total, you will be guaranteed to find a boyfriend you like even with this strategy alone, but why stop there when you will find strategy 3 so enjoyable?
3. Activity Weekend
Having spent the week following Steps 1 & 2, you will already have plenty of guys to choose from, so this will be the cherry on the cake! Think about something you have always wanted to do, but have been too afraid to try like rock-climbing, skydiving, canoeing, abseiling, white-water rafting, go-kart racing, something adventurous and search out where you can take part in such activities. Do a search on the internet for ‘singles weekends’ and see what comes up. Get a hold of some brochures and find something that inspires you.
Adventure sports are a great way to expand your horizons, but if the outdoors is definitely not for you, there are other options like yoga weekends, health spas, walking or painting weekends. You find something that is of interest to you that you wouldn’t normally do, it must include at least 1 night away with a group, preferably 2 nights. Pack clothes that are comfortable, but that compliment your figure what ever size you might be. Clothes that make you feel sexy and attractive.
Just like that, you can be dating again, with plenty of men to choose from and on your way to discovering your very own Mr. Right. Good luck and have fun!
Tanya Haden Tebb
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