Looking for the Right One
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Francis Hosein
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Published on 04/12/2009
Are you on a journey to find the right one to live your life with
Many men and women hope to meet the right one before the age of forty so they can start settling down and having a family
Are you on a journey to find the right one to live your life with?
Many men and women hope to meet the right one before the age of forty so they can start settling down and having a family.
If you find yourself with the same thoughts know that you are not the only one and that you are following the thoughts of many people.
Your age
Depending on your age you may have different beliefs, thoughts and feelings when comes to having the right one in your life.
For you that may be the main thing on your mind and you may feel that your time is running out for you to settle down and have a family.
Some may feel that they have live their life hoping to meet the right one and never had a chance and they feel they have lost.
Go through the pain
You may meet many people in different situation and event hoping that you will get a sign to know if the person is the right one.
Some people say they will know it and take the chance to get into a relationship hoping what they thought or felt was the right one, only for some they realize that what they felt was wrong and have to start all over again.
Those who have gone through the process of meeting another person and breaking up may not go through it again because they felt so much hurt and are not sure they could love another as much as they love their last love and they may choose to not go through the pain again, and there are those who get over the pain and are willing to do it all over again because they believe that person is there.
Picky?
If you find yourself very picky about whom you want and how they behave you may find that you are not getting the right person because your focus is on not getting the right person, your focus is on they are not good enough.
When you become picky you may focus so much on being picky that you may not notice the right person in front of you.
Criteria
Are you a person who has lots of criteria that you are quick to remove a person from your list because they do not fit in one of your criteria?
Do you find your criteria very long and detail or short and not clear?
Do you have criteria’s with different levels of passing grade?
Know what you are looking for
Do you think the opposite sex knows what they want as you do and can answer to your wants and needs?
You may know what you are looking for in the right one yet not all the people that you come in contact with will know or fit.
Needs are going to be fulfill
If you focus on getting the right one so all your needs are going to be fulfill by the other then you leave yourself in a place of becoming dependent on another.
Satisfying only one person need and not the other does last long for a relationship.
Look within
You may think that to attract the right one is to go out on dates to see and feel which person is compatible to you or you can look within you to see how you feel to have the right one with you in your life.
If you are a person who feels and trust your emotions then it is best you follow your feelings.
Do you take ownership to the fact that you are part of the creator of your life and you attract to you the people and events that help to have the life, love and problems that comes with it?
If you do then know you can allow the right person into your life now when you do believe.
Thoughts and beliefs
If your thoughts and beliefs are not align you maybe sabotaging yourself from attracting the right one which means you may say you want the right one and your thought are that it will not happen or that you feel alone.
Is visualizing the right person good enough and the answer is no, it is a combination of thought, beliefs which leads to taking the right action that comes from deep within because you are ready and you deserve to have this success.
Conclusion : Looking for the right one starts within you becoming clear and aligning your thoughts and beliefs to attract the right person in your life now.
Many men and women hope to meet the right one before the age of forty so they can start settling down and having a family.
If you find yourself with the same thoughts know that you are not the only one and that you are following the thoughts of many people.
Your age
Depending on your age you may have different beliefs, thoughts and feelings when comes to having the right one in your life.
For you that may be the main thing on your mind and you may feel that your time is running out for you to settle down and have a family.
Some may feel that they have live their life hoping to meet the right one and never had a chance and they feel they have lost.
Go through the pain
You may meet many people in different situation and event hoping that you will get a sign to know if the person is the right one.
Some people say they will know it and take the chance to get into a relationship hoping what they thought or felt was the right one, only for some they realize that what they felt was wrong and have to start all over again.
Those who have gone through the process of meeting another person and breaking up may not go through it again because they felt so much hurt and are not sure they could love another as much as they love their last love and they may choose to not go through the pain again, and there are those who get over the pain and are willing to do it all over again because they believe that person is there.
Picky?
If you find yourself very picky about whom you want and how they behave you may find that you are not getting the right person because your focus is on not getting the right person, your focus is on they are not good enough.
When you become picky you may focus so much on being picky that you may not notice the right person in front of you.
Criteria
Are you a person who has lots of criteria that you are quick to remove a person from your list because they do not fit in one of your criteria?
Do you find your criteria very long and detail or short and not clear?
Do you have criteria’s with different levels of passing grade?
Know what you are looking for
Do you think the opposite sex knows what they want as you do and can answer to your wants and needs?
You may know what you are looking for in the right one yet not all the people that you come in contact with will know or fit.
Needs are going to be fulfill
If you focus on getting the right one so all your needs are going to be fulfill by the other then you leave yourself in a place of becoming dependent on another.
Satisfying only one person need and not the other does last long for a relationship.
Look within
You may think that to attract the right one is to go out on dates to see and feel which person is compatible to you or you can look within you to see how you feel to have the right one with you in your life.
If you are a person who feels and trust your emotions then it is best you follow your feelings.
Do you take ownership to the fact that you are part of the creator of your life and you attract to you the people and events that help to have the life, love and problems that comes with it?
If you do then know you can allow the right person into your life now when you do believe.
Thoughts and beliefs
If your thoughts and beliefs are not align you maybe sabotaging yourself from attracting the right one which means you may say you want the right one and your thought are that it will not happen or that you feel alone.
Is visualizing the right person good enough and the answer is no, it is a combination of thought, beliefs which leads to taking the right action that comes from deep within because you are ready and you deserve to have this success.
Conclusion : Looking for the right one starts within you becoming clear and aligning your thoughts and beliefs to attract the right person in your life now.