When the man you love tells you he wants to end your relationship, you go through a whole host of emotions, but none of them compares to the humiliation of rejection. It may cause you enough hurt and anger to want to seek revenge, but if you still love him and want to get your ex back, it is not the right course to take. So, put your anger and humiliation aside and think of ways to make him regret losing you instead. After all, what good is the satisfaction of revenge if you lose the man you love in the process? You might think that he is gone for good and you want to hurt him as he has hurt you, but if you want a future with your man, you have to do away with negative thinking and have a positive outlook. You will get him back if you use this powerful technique.

First of all, you need to show your ex boyfriend that he needs you in his life. To do this, it will be necessary to project a woman that is self confident and emotionally mature. If you insist on crying and begging him to take you back, you will not have a chance. He will dismiss you as being needy and emotionally unstable. Even if he still cares for you, this kind of conduct will make him want to avoid you in the future in every way possible. By showing you are strong enough to handle the breakup, you will be well on your way to making him regret losing you.

You must accept the fact that he is gone for now and go on with your life. You should also do some reflection on the course of your relationship from the happy beginning to the bitter end. Think of what attracted your ex boyfriend to you at the start. The way you looked and acted. You may be surprised to see how much you have changed. If you are no longer the woman he fell in love with, you can see why he might have become disillusioned and felt that he had not really known you all along. This might have caused him as much pain as the breakup caused you. To make him regret losing you, it will be necessary for you to become the woman he fell in love with again and convince him that woman is back to stay.

This will not be easy for you to do because people do change along the road of life. But it will not be as hard as you may think. You still have most of the good qualities he saw when he fell in love with you. He will not expect you to be perfect, but if you get rid of the bad personality traits you have acquired and work hard on getting back the good ones you might have let slip, it should be enough to make him regret losing you and you will get back the love of your life.