When your boyfriend said he needs space, all you could think of is why? What did you do to offend him so much that he did not want to be around you anymore? This causes you to be confused and humiliated. Your family really liked him, so what are you going to tell them? You try to come up with a story to make him the one to blame, but you love him so much that you cannot say bad things about him, especially if they are untrue. What you need to do is take this action quick and watch him come running back.

But first, when your boyfriend told you he needed space, you just joined a multitude of women around the world that have had this same experience. So it is nothing to be ashamed of, you are suffering enough from your broken heart as it is. Anyone that loves you will be supportive and not ask for an explanation.

You do need to find out what caused the breakup and figure out how to fix the problem in order to get your boyfriend back. But, that is your own personal task and there is no need to share it with others. The reason it is so important that you solve the problems that led to the breakup is so you will not make the same mistakes again once you get your ex back.

Finding out the true reason for your boyfriend breaking up with you might cause you to face some things that are unpleasant. But if you want your ex back, you will have to face up to and correct the things that you did to make him want to end the relationship. When you are sorting out these problems, keep in mind that your ideas of what caused the breakup and what your ex boyfriend feels is the reason could be different. He is the only one that can really tell you why he felt he had to get away from the relationship.

If you think you can take hearing it from him, then you should contact him and ask him face to face what you did that caused him to break up with you. If what he tells you is something that you have thought of and found a way to fix, tell him and ask him to forgive you and give things another try. If he tells you a reason that you had not thought of, tell him that you were unaware of the problem, but you will work hard to remedy it also.

This is going to hurt, and some might call it embarrassing, but if you want your boyfriend back, this is a small price to pay. So, lay it all out, let him see into your heart and know that you are sincere. When he accepts your offer of another try, your job does not stop there. You will have to keep working to improve yourself, so you do not lose him again.