Here is the question: If you had the opportunity to create your perfect mate which celebrities or historical figures would you combine OK, now you’ve had enough time to conjure up a few people

You see them at the club, church, the Urban League meeting, and the grocery store, on Facebook and Tagged, or like me at Starbucks – single ladies who can’t get a guy to put a ring on it And you wonder “Why isn’t she married

Have you heard this lately, “Baby why don’t you ever spend time with me, we don’t do anything together, we have no quality time, ALL WE DO IS EXIST AND PAY BILLS” And in the defensive man type of way (because you think she is nagging) you say “What do you mean we don’t spend quality time together, we eat breakfast together, we drive to work together, I talk to you every day, we go to church together, DARN WHAT DO YOU WANT